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Pema Chödrön is an American Buddhist nun and one of the foremost students of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. She is the resident teacher at Gampo Abbey in Nova Scotia, Canada, and the author of several influential works on Buddhist practice, including 'When Things Fall Apart' and 'The Places That Scare You.
Known for: Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living, Welcoming the Unwelcome: Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
Books by Pema Chödrön

Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living
In this book, American Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön offers practical teachings on cultivating compassion and fearlessness through the practice of lojong, a traditional Tibetan Buddhist mind-training tech...

Welcoming the Unwelcome: Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World
In this book, American Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön offers guidance on how to face life’s difficulties with compassion and mindfulness. Drawing from Buddhist teachings, she encourages readers to embr...

When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
In this modern spiritual classic, American Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön offers compassionate guidance on how to face life’s challenges with openness and courage. Drawing from Tibetan Buddhist teachings, ...
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Starting Where You Are: Embracing the Present Ground of Practice
The first step in compassionate living is radical acceptance of the present moment. When I say “start where you are,” I mean truly acknowledging the experience of now — without judging it, without trying to improve or escape it. Most of us spend our lives waiting for the right moment to begin, imagi...
From Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living
The Nature of Suffering and the Habit of Avoidance
To cultivate compassion, we must understand suffering not as an enemy but as the teacher that reveals the truth. The Buddha’s first teaching was that suffering exists. We experience it in countless forms — disappointment, fear, loneliness, and the subtle unease of wanting things to be different. Yet...
From Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living
Embracing Discomfort as a Path to Awakening
Welcoming discomfort is deeply countercultural. Our instincts tell us to cling to what’s pleasant and push away what hurts. Yet in truth, discomfort is one of the most honest teachers life gives us. In the Buddhist tradition, awakening doesn’t come through escape—it comes through direct contact with...
From Welcoming the Unwelcome: Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World
Impermanence and the Strength of Resilience
One of the most liberating truths in Buddhism is impermanence: everything changes. Everything arises, transforms, and passes away—every emotion, relationship, success, and failure. When we truly absorb this truth, resilience becomes natural. We may still grieve, but we no longer cling. Often, peopl...
From Welcoming the Unwelcome: Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World
Facing Suffering and Impermanence
In the Buddhist view, suffering is not an error but a fundamental aspect of existence. What causes our anguish is not pain itself, but our resistance to it—the belief that life should be otherwise. When we cling to permanence, we inevitably suffer, because the nature of all phenomena is change. In m...
From When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
Groundlessness: The Gateway to Awakening
One of the most challenging truths to accept is that there is no solid ground beneath our feet. We spend years building structures—careers, identities, relationships—that give an illusion of security. But when circumstances shift, these foundations tremble. Groundlessness, I tell my students, is not...
From When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
About Pema Chödrön
Pema Chödrön is an American Buddhist nun and one of the foremost students of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. She is the resident teacher at Gampo Abbey in Nova Scotia, Canada, and the author of several influential works on Buddhist practice, including 'When Things Fall Apart' and 'The Places That Scare Yo...
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Pema Chödrön is an American Buddhist nun and one of the foremost students of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. She is the resident teacher at Gampo Abbey in Nova Scotia, Canada, and the author of several influential works on Buddhist practice, including 'When Things Fall Apart' and 'The Places That Scare Yo...
Pema Chödrön is an American Buddhist nun and one of the foremost students of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. She is the resident teacher at Gampo Abbey in Nova Scotia, Canada, and the author of several influential works on Buddhist practice, including 'When Things Fall Apart' and 'The Places That Scare You.'
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