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Lisa Damour Books

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Lisa Damour, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and regular contributor to The New York Times and CBS News. Educated at Yale University and the University of Michigan, she specializes in child development, education, and family mental health.

Known for: The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents, Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls, Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood

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Understanding Teen Emotions

When we look at a teenager, we’re tempted to assume their emotions come from moodiness, hormones, or impulses. But neuroscience offers a more nuanced picture. In adolescence, the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for reason, planning, and moderating behavior—is still developing. Me...

From The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents

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The Role of Stress

One of the most vital distinctions parents need to understand is between healthy stress and toxic stress. I like to think of stress as the body’s way of responding to challenge. A moderate dose of stress is not only normal but essential—it pushes teenagers to adapt, learn new skills, and prepare for...

From The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents

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Understanding Stress

Stress is not an invader but a physiological system designed for survival. When a girl faces a challenge—academic, social, or emotional—her body releases adrenaline and cortisol to sharpen attention and prepare action. The problem arises when the system is overloaded, when recovery does not follow a...

From Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls

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Cultural and Social Pressures

Girls today are growing up in a culture that equates worth with perfection. Social media amplifies every expectation—academic success, ideal body image, flawless friendships—and broadcasts them in real time. Many girls internalize this messaging, feeling that anything short of perfection equals fail...

From Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls

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Part 1 – Joining a New Tribe

The first major transition is perhaps the one parents feel most acutely: the moment when girls begin to shift their emotional center from family to friends. This change is not rejection — it is evolution. For years, your daughter’s identity was rooted primarily in her relationship with you, her pare...

From Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood

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Part 2 – Harnessing Emotions

Adolescent girls feel everything. Happiness, despair, excitement, anxiety — all magnified, all intense. Parents often ask why their daughters seem to overreact or spiral emotionally; my answer is always the same: it’s not overreaction, it’s growth. During adolescence, the emotional system is undergo...

From Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood

About Lisa Damour

Lisa Damour, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and regular contributor to The New York Times and CBS News. Educated at Yale University and the University of Michigan, she specializes in child development, education, and family mental health.

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