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Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen Books

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Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen are affiliated with the Harvard Negotiation Project. They are experts in negotiation, communication, and conflict resolution, and have taught at Harvard Law School and advised organizations worldwide on improving dialogue and collaboration.

Known for: Difficult Conversations Don't Have to Be Difficult: A Foolproof Method for Handling Tough Talks, Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most

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The Three Layers of Every Difficult Conversation

When most people think about a “difficult conversation,” they focus on what was said. But words are just the surface. The quality of any interaction is determined by the structure underlying it. In truth, every difficult conversation involves three intertwined talks: the facts, the feelings, and the...

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The Facts Conversation: From Proving Right to Discovering Truth

On the surface, most conflicts seem factual. “You said you’d finish the project by Thursday.” “No, I said I’d try.” But what we’re really debating is meaning—the intention behind behavior and who’s to blame when things go wrong. Understanding the facts conversation begins with clearing up three comm...

From Difficult Conversations Don't Have to Be Difficult: A Foolproof Method for Handling Tough Talks

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The Three Layers of Every Difficult Conversation

When most people think of a difficult conversation, they think of the words exchanged. They focus on what they said or what the other person said. But the truth is that what we say is only the outer shell of something much deeper. Beneath every difficult conversation are three layers that unfold sim...

From Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most

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The 'What Happened?' Conversation

At the surface level, conflicts often seem to revolve around what happened: “You said you’d finish the project by Thursday.” “No, I said I’d try.” Yet rarely are we arguing just about facts. We are arguing about meanings—what intentions lay behind actions, and who deserves blame. Understanding the ‘...

From Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most

About Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen

Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen are affiliated with the Harvard Negotiation Project. They are experts in negotiation, communication, and conflict resolution, and have taught at Harvard Law School and advised organizations worldwide on improving dialogue and collaboration.

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Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen are affiliated with the Harvard Negotiation Project. They are experts in negotiation, communication, and conflict resolution, and have taught at Harvard Law School and advised organizations worldwide on improving dialogue and collaboration.

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