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Thomas W. Phelan, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, lecturer, and author specializing in child discipline and attention deficit disorder.
Known for: 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12
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1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12
1-2-3 Magic is a practical parenting guide that introduces a simple, effective method for disciplining children aged 2 to 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. The book outlines a three-step approach to stop unwanted behavior, encourage good habits, and strengthen the parent-child relationship through calm, consistent communication.
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Understanding 'Stop Behavior': The First Step
Let’s begin with what I call 'Stop Behavior'—those frustrating patterns like yelling, whining, arguing, and tantrums. Most parents know what these behaviors look like, but the question is, how do we stop them effectively? The heart of my approach is to remove your emotional involvement during these ...
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The Art of the Count: Calm, Consistent Discipline
Counting is a deceptively simple tool, but understanding its psychology is essential. The numbers aren’t magical—they’re signals of structure. When you calmly count, you’re teaching children something profound: that actions have consequences independent of emotion. This clarity helps your child inte...
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About Thomas W. Phelan
Thomas W. Phelan, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, lecturer, and author specializing in child discipline and attention deficit disorder. He has worked with parents, teachers, and mental health professionals for decades, developing practical strategies for effective parenting and behavior management.
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