Stephen Arterburn Books

Every man lives in a cultural minefield. Temptation is not something you go looking for anymore—it comes looking for you. Whether on a phone screen, in casual conversation, or through entertainment, today’s culture turns sexuality into consumption. Yet the consequences of sexual compromise aren’t li...

From Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time

Lust doesn’t begin with an action—it begins with a glance. In this chapter, we explain how the male brain and body are wired visually, which in itself is not sinful; it is part of God’s design. The problem arises when we allow that visual spark to ignite fantasy, when curiosity morphs into fixation....

From Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time

The first step toward renewal is to understand the devastation caused by betrayal. In my counseling work, I’ve seen men minimize what they have done, treating pornography or emotional affairs as lesser sins compared to physical infidelity. But to a betrayed partner, the impact feels much the same: t...

From Worthy Of Her Trust: What You Need To Do To Rebuild Sexual Integrity And Win Her Back

Facing the truth is one of the most excruciating yet freeing steps on this journey. Most men fear to confront the full story of what they’ve done, because the weight of shame can feel unbearable. Yet healing begins only when we stop constructing narratives that soften or justify our actions. Full o...

From Worthy Of Her Trust: What You Need To Do To Rebuild Sexual Integrity And Win Her Back