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Marilee Adams, Ph. D.
Known for: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life: 12 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Life
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Change Your Questions, Change Your Life: 12 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Life
What if the biggest factor shaping your leadership, relationships, and results is not what happens to you, but the questions you automatically ask yourself about it? In Change Your Questions, Change Your Life, Marilee Adams argues that the quality of our inner and outer questions determines whether we react with blame, defensiveness, and fear, or respond with curiosity, clarity, and purpose. Through a story-driven format centered on a stressed manager named Ben, Adams introduces “Question Thinking,” a practical framework for recognizing unhelpful mental habits and replacing them with better questions. This book matters because it turns self-awareness into a repeatable skill. Rather than offering abstract inspiration, Adams provides concrete tools leaders, coaches, teams, and families can use immediately to improve communication, decision-making, and emotional intelligence. Her core insight is simple but powerful: when we shift from judgment to learning, we open the door to better choices and better outcomes. As an executive coach, consultant, and founder of the Inquiry Institute, Adams brings deep expertise to this work, making the book both credible and highly actionable.
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Ben’s Wake-Up Call to Awareness
Transformation often begins not with a grand insight, but with a moment of discomfort we can no longer ignore. Adams opens the book with Ben, a capable manager whose life appears successful on the surface, yet feels increasingly strained underneath. His team is disengaged, his boss is dissatisfied, ...
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The Choice Map: Judger or Learner
In difficult moments, we usually think we are reacting to reality, when in fact we are reacting to the questions our minds are asking. Adams captures this dynamic with the Choice Map, one of the book’s most useful tools. The map shows two distinct mental pathways: the Judger path and the Learner pat...
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Switching Questions Changes Everything
A better life rarely starts with better answers; it starts with better questions. Adams introduces the practice of “switching questions,” the skill of converting reactive, judgmental questions into constructive, learning-oriented ones. This is the practical heart of Question Thinking. Instead of try...
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Questions Shape Leadership and Culture
Every leader teaches people how to think, not only through decisions, but through the questions they normalize. Adams shows that questioning style is a powerful force in workplace culture. Leaders who operate from Judger create fear, silence, and compliance. Leaders who operate from Learner create e...
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Inner Dialogue Drives Emotion and Behavior
Most conversations that shape our lives happen before we say a word to anyone else. Adams emphasizes that our internal dialogue is constantly generating emotions, assumptions, and reactions. We do not simply experience events; we interpret them through questions. Those questions influence whether we...
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Living the Learner Mindset Daily
Insight is valuable, but only repeated practice turns insight into character. As Ben begins to apply Question Thinking, Adams shows that transformation is not a one-time breakthrough. It is the gradual integration of a Learner mindset into everyday moments. This includes work conversations, decision...
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About Marilee Adams
Marilee Adams, Ph.D., is an author, organizational consultant, and executive coach. She is the founder of the Inquiry Institute and a pioneer in the field of Question Thinking, focusing on leadership development, communication, and organizational learning.
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