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Gary John Bishop Books

3 books·~30 min total read

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Known for: Love Unfu*ked: Getting Your Relationship Sh*t Together, Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back, Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life

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Examining Personal Responsibility

When it comes to relationships, everyone wants a quick fix. We want someone else to change, or a situation to miraculously resolve itself. But in reality, everything starts with you. Personal responsibility is not just a principle—it’s the foundation of love that works. In this section, I tear down ...

From Love Unfu*ked: Getting Your Relationship Sh*t Together

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Understanding Self-Sabotage

Every person has an inner narrative that quietly dictates their choices in love. Some believe they’re unworthy of affection, others think they’ll always be abandoned. These beliefs are invisible scripts, and they’re the root of self-sabotage. You can’t love fully while dragging stories that tell you...

From Love Unfu*ked: Getting Your Relationship Sh*t Together

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Defining Self-Sabotage

Most people don’t recognize self-sabotage until it’s too late. You think you’re just procrastinating, losing motivation, or reacting to bad luck. But self-sabotage is deeper than poor habits—it’s your invisible loyalty to an old identity. Every time you’re about to grow, that identity panics. It whi...

From Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back

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The Three Layers of Self

To break free, you need a map of the terrain. The human self operates on three layers: your past, your present identity, and your imagined future. Each layer builds and sustains the patterns that run your life. The past is your foundation, made of every experience, disappointment, and victory that ...

From Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back

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The Power of Self-Talk

Our internal dialogue is the most persuasive conversation we’ll ever have. It defines our beliefs, influences our actions, and constructs the invisible cage that keeps us from our potential. When I say, 'You are your words,' I mean that literally. Every thought you entertain creates a lens through w...

From Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life

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I Am Willing

Willingness is where all transformation starts. You don’t need to know how; you just need to be willing. Too many people wait for clarity before acting, but the truth is, clarity only comes through action. Being willing opens the door to new experiences, new strategies, and new realities. It’s the q...

From Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life

About Gary John Bishop

S. T. Abby was the pen name of American author C. M. Owens, known for her contemporary romance and dark thriller novels. Her works gained a devoted following for their emotional intensity and complex characters.

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