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Mónica Guzmán is a journalist, author, and Senior Fellow for Public Practice at Braver Angels, a nonprofit dedicated to depolarizing America. She has written for The Seattle Times and The Daily Beast and is known for her work on dialogue and civic engagement.
Known for: I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times
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I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times
In an age when political disagreement can fracture families, friendships, and entire communities, Mónica Guzmán offers a refreshingly practical alternative to outrage, avoidance, and despair. I Never Thought of It That Way is a guide to talking across deep differences without surrendering conviction or pretending conflict does not exist. Instead of asking readers to be more agreeable, Guzmán asks them to become more curious. Her central claim is powerful: when we stop treating disagreement as proof that others are foolish or dangerous, and start investigating how they came to believe what they believe, we expand our own understanding and create the conditions for better conversations. The book matters because polarization is no longer an abstract social problem; it shapes our daily relationships and our collective future. Guzmán writes with unusual authority on the subject. A journalist, bridge-builder, and senior fellow at Braver Angels, she draws on reporting, personal experience, and years of dialogue work across ideological divides. The result is a deeply human, highly actionable book that helps readers replace defensive certainty with fearless curiosity, making disagreement less threatening and far more illuminating.
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Curiosity Is Stronger Than Certainty
One of the most disruptive ideas in this book is that certainty can feel like strength while actually making us weaker. When we become convinced we already understand why people think as they do, we stop learning. We fill gaps with assumptions, reduce complex human beings to stereotypes, and treat d...
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Seeing Others Beyond The Story We Tell
A major source of division is not disagreement itself but the stories we invent about the people who disagree with us. Guzmán shows how quickly we turn others into simplified characters: ignorant voters, brainwashed activists, selfish elites, naive idealists. These stories protect our worldview beca...
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Understanding Is Not The Same As Agreement
Many people avoid difficult conversations because they fear that trying to understand an opposing view will look like surrender. Guzmán directly challenges this fear. Understanding someone is not the same as endorsing them. In fact, the refusal to understand often weakens our own position, because i...
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Questions Open Doors Defensiveness Closes
If arguments often fail, it is not always because the evidence is weak. Often it is because people do not feel safe enough to think openly. Guzmán emphasizes that questions can lower defensiveness in ways declarations rarely do. A well-asked question communicates respect, patience, and interest. It ...
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Our Information Worlds Shape Our Reality
People do not simply hold different opinions; they often inhabit different realities built by distinct streams of information, trust, and experience. Guzmán highlights how media habits, social networks, geography, and identity shape what we notice, fear, and believe. This helps explain why intellige...
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Relationships Change The Quality Of Disagreement
Polarization thrives when people know each other only as abstractions. Guzmán shows that relationships do not erase disagreement, but they dramatically improve how disagreement unfolds. When we know a person’s story, humor, struggles, and good intentions, it becomes harder to flatten them into an en...
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About Mónica Guzmán
Mónica Guzmán is a journalist, author, and Senior Fellow for Public Practice at Braver Angels, a nonprofit dedicated to depolarizing America. She has written for The Seattle Times and The Daily Beast and is known for her work on dialogue and civic engagement.
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