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Michael Bungay Stanier is a Canadian author and leadership coach best known for his bestselling book 'The Coaching Habit'. He is the founder of Box of Crayons, a company that helps organizations do less good work and more great work.

Known for: How to Begin: Start Doing Something That Matters, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships, The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever, The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever

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Defining a Worthy Goal

Before we talk about doing, we must talk about meaning. The first step in *How to Begin* is discovering your Worthy Goal—not just a to-do list item but something that speaks to the heart of who you are and what you hope to bring into the world. A Worthy Goal connects your personal joy to a broader c...

From How to Begin: Start Doing Something That Matters

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The Three Attributes

When I describe a goal as 'worthy,' I mean it must meet three criteria: thrilling, important, and daunting. These are not aesthetic adjectives—they’re structural pillars. They ensure your energy, your purpose, and your growth align. A goal is thrilling when it excites you so much you can feel its p...

From How to Begin: Start Doing Something That Matters

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The Amplify Question: What’s Your Best?

Every strong relationship begins by recognizing what makes each person come alive. The **Amplify Question—"What’s your best?"—** invites the other person to share what helps them thrive. Too often, we spend energy managing weaknesses or avoiding friction, but real strength lies in amplifying what wo...

From How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships

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The Steady Question: What Can You Depend On?

No matter how strong a start, every relationship eventually encounters stress. That’s why I offer the **Steady Question—"What can you depend on from me, and what do I need from you to stay steady?"** This question builds psychological safety. It’s about making your reliability visible and giving lan...

From How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships

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Defining the Advice Monster

Let me introduce you to the creature that keeps you trapped in the cycle of advice-giving—the Advice Monster. It springs from the moment someone mentions a challenge or a problem, and before you know it, it’s awake, roaring, declaring: “I know what to do! Let me tell you!” In truth, we carry three ...

From The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever

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Understanding the Cost of Giving Advice

Advice feels helpful—it’s how we show care, expertise, and support. Yet advice also carries a hidden cost. Every time we tell someone what to do, we inadvertently deprive them of the chance to think, struggle, and learn. The more we solve, the less they grow. In organizations, the damage accumulate...

From The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever

About Michael Bungay Stanier

Michael Bungay Stanier is a Canadian author and leadership coach best known for his bestselling book 'The Coaching Habit'. He is the founder of Box of Crayons, a company that helps organizations do less good work and more great work. His writing focuses on practical tools for personal growth and lea...

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Michael Bungay Stanier is a Canadian author and leadership coach best known for his bestselling book 'The Coaching Habit'. He is the founder of Box of Crayons, a company that helps organizations do less good work and more great work. His writing focuses on practical tools for personal growth and leadership development.

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